This tool comes up often. It works well to manage all frustration with other people.
No matter the situation tell yourself: everyone is always on their best behaviour.
You don’t know the experience others are living, hence cannot judge the way they choose to engage with the world. Yes, could be kinder, yes, could be wiser, yes, could be clearer. But what you experience is their best possible behaviour right now.
Same goes for self.
You are an energy leader, but you are a human. And sometimes, yes, could be kinder, yes, could be wiser, yes, could be clearer, but hey, don’t beat yourself up.
You know better and you will be better.
Next time.
For now, this is you.
On your best behaviour.
#energyleader #bestbehaviour
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